Nigerian actress and filmmaker Mary Remmy Njoku has advised women to focus on intelligence and personal growth rather than just physical beauty.  


In a candid Instagram post on March 14, 2025, the outspoken actress pointed out that beauty is no longer a rarity since cosmetic enhancements have made it easily attainable. However, she emphasized that intelligence and self-improvement remain invaluable.  


"Beauty isn’t rare anymore—it’s not a big deal to be beautiful. Anyone with money can modify their looks. But what truly sets you apart is your mind. Develop your intellect, invest in your skills, and expand your knowledge. You can buy a new body, but you can’t buy a new brain,"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         she wrote.  


Njoku also critiqued the rising popularity of cosmetic surgeries, particularly Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs), highlighting how accessible these procedures have become.  


"BBLs are basically buy-one-get-one-free these days. You can’t alter your brain, but you can develop it. So while you're investing in a nose job and new boobs, make sure you're also investing in your personal growth. Because a BBL without brains? That’s a disaster waiting to happen. Substance over surface," she added.  


Her remarks struck a chord with many followers, who took to the comments to express their agreement:  

???? "Finally, someone said it! Beauty may open doors, but without intelligence, you won’t last in the room." 

???? "Takeaway lesson: You can’t alter your brain, but you can develop it!" 

???? "Some women won’t like this, but she’s speaking facts!"  


Njoku's perspective adds to the ongoing conversation about the balance between physical appearance and intellectual substance, urging women to invest in qualities that truly stand the test of time.