
In an emotionally charged moment that has since gone viral, Annie Idibia, the ex-wife of legendary Nigerian singer 2Baba (Innocent Idibia), took to social media to express her pain and reflection on love, sacrifice, and emotional neglect.
Her post came shortly after reports surfaced that 2Baba had gifted his new wife,Natasha, a luxury designer bag reportedly worth ₦50 million. The extravagant gesture quickly set the internet ablaze, not just for its price tag, but for the emotional ripple it triggered in those who’ve followed the couple's long and turbulent relationship.
“I used to ignore that saying: ‘A man who loves you spends on you and buys you gifts.’ I was very understanding,” Annie wrote tearfully. “But now I know… an understanding woman is entitled to chew grass.”
The raw, vulnerable post struck a chord with many women who have felt overlooked or underappreciated in the name of being “understanding” partners. Annie, once praised for her loyalty through public scandals, infidelity rumors, and years of emotional endurance, is now opening up about the emotional cost of her silence.
The quote, now circulating widely online, has sparked intense conversations around emotional labor in relationships, especially in a culture that often glorifies women who endure quietly while their partners continue to rise.
Fans and supporters have flooded Annie’s page with messages of solidarity, many sharing similar experiences and encouraging her to speak her truth. Others have criticized 2Baba for what they see as insensitivity, given his long history with Annie and the sacrifices she made over the years.
As the drama continues to unfold, one thing is clear, Annie Idibia is done being silent, and her words are resonating far beyond the entertainment world. Her message is a poignant reminder that love should never come at the expense of one’s worth.