Popular Nollywood actress Destiny Etiko is speaking her truth and she’s not sugarcoating it. In a candid message that has sparked discussion across social media, Destiny made it clear that when it comes to relationships and marriage, she knows her worth and refuses to settle. “Men are chatting me, some even want to marry me, but I can't accept to be with someone below my standards,” the actress declared. “I can't be with someone who can't take care of me just because I'm desperate to be in marriage.” Known for her unapologetic attitude and strong personality, Destiny’s statement reflects a growing mindset among women who are choosing intentionality over societal pressure. Her words challenge the outdated narrative that women must marry at all costs, regardless of compatibility, stability, or peace of mind. “I can't accept to be with someone I will suffer with tomorrow or my kids will suffer because of no money,”** she continued. “I will wait. If I don't see anyone of my standards, I will remain single.” Destiny’s message also highlighted her personal fulfillment beyond marriage. She revealed that she already has an adopted child, a choice that shows her deep sense of love, purpose, and responsibility. “I already have an adopted child; I don't need to worry.” For Destiny, motherhood and womanhood are not defined by a marital status or a partner’s presence. Her focus is on emotional stability, financial security, and raising a child in a safe, happy environment. And that’s a message many women across Africa and beyond are resonating with. In a world where many feel pressured to settle out of fear, Destiny Etiko is choosing peace over pressure, quality over quantity, and standards over desperation. And for that, she continues to earn respect both on and off the screen.