Popular Nollywood actress Ini Edo has stirred conversation across social media after declaring that marriage should not be treated as a divine mandate or a life-or-death achievement. In a bold statement titled "Marriage Is Not a Prayer Point," the actress called out the societal obsession with getting married, especially before the age of 30, describing it as overhyped and potentially damaging. “Marriage is overhyped in our society to the point where it feels like a divine assignment everyone must fulfill by 30 or earlier,” she wrote. According to Edo, marriage should not be treated as a desperate prayer request or something people must fast and cry to receive. Instead, she describes it as a conscious decision, one that requires preparation, emotional maturity, and the ability to choose wisely. “It’s not something you beg God for like your daily bread,” she said. “It’s a decision, a partnership, and most importantly, a responsibility.” The actress advised individuals seeking companionship to shift their focus from urgency to personal growth, healing, and clarity. Rather than making marriage the ultimate goal, she encouraged people to prioritize building a healthy and happy life, whether or not it includes a spouse. “Pray for wisdom, emotional maturity, clarity... Because marriage is not the goal, a healthy and happy life is.” Edo’s message also emphasized self-worth beyond relationship status. She reassured followers that being unmarried does not equate to failure or incompleteness. “If marriage becomes part of your journey, great! If not, you’re still whole, still worthy, and still winning.” The post has sparked widespread support and debate online, with many praising Edo for challenging long-standing cultural expectations around marriage, particularly in African societies. As public discourse continues to evolve around gender roles and societal pressure, Ini Edo’s comments add to a growing movement that promotes self-awareness, mental wellness, and intentional living over societal conformity.