Ivy Ifeoma, the girlfriend of Nigerian music star Paul Okoye (Rudeboy) of P-Square fame, has sent social media into a frenzy following her controversial comments about infidelity and forgiveness in marriage. In a viral video making rounds online, Ivy boldly stated that if she ever discovers her partner is cheating, she wouldn’t be upset, instead, she would apologize to him for making him stray. “If I ever catch my husband, Rudeboy, cheating on me, I’ll apologize to him for making him cheat,” she said. “That’s how marriage works.” The influencer didn’t stop there. She went on to explain her surprising views on relationships, loyalty, and emotional maturity, drawing both applause and outrage online. “In her words:> “Only a stupid woman leaves her husband for cheating. It’s foolish because all men cheat. Instead of fighting or walking out, I’d cook a good meal, let him eat, and kneel down to say I’m sorry.” Ivy also addressed her feelings about Rudeboy’s continued public gestures towards his ex-wife, Anita, with whom he shares children. “Anytime my husband posts his ex-wife, I feel very happy. It shows he’s a kind man who doesn’t hate people even when they hurt him. It’s way better than cheating and I know he won’t cheat anyway.” Her comments have sparked intense debates across social media platforms, with many questioning her stance on accountability and emotional self-worth in relationships. While some netizens have praised Ivy for what they describe as emotional intelligence and maturity, others have condemned her remarks as toxic, damaging, and enabling infidelity. “This is why emotional manipulation thrives. Women are being groomed to believe cheating is their fault,” one X (formerly Twitter) user wrote. “She’s just protecting her peace. Not everything needs to be war in a marriage,” another countered. As public discourse continues to swirl, neither Paul Okoye nor his management has officially responded to the controversy. Whether you see Ivy’s views as admirable submission or misguided devotion, one thing is clear, she has stirred a conversation that cuts deep into the heart of modern relationships and the expectations placed on women in love.