Ruth and her husband chose a 50-person wedding, not because they lacked resources, but because they valued privacy, peace, and intimacy over performance and pressure. That’s powerful. She said: “I wasn’t ready to take my relationship public and my husband was okay with it.” That right there is maturity, a couple making a decision based on what suits them, not society. Yes, if: You prioritize meaning over crowd size, You value privacy, peace, and presence on your big day, You want to protect your relationship from outside noise and distractions, You’re okay with disappointing public expectations to honor personal convictions, Why a Small Wedding Might Be Right for You: Less stress and planning drama, More budget control, Deeper connection with your guests, No pressure to impress, More time to focus on your marriage than the event, Ruth also mentioned: “It was pretty easy for me since I didn’t have many friends at the time.” This is a refreshing reminder that you don’t need a crowd to feel loved just the right people. So, Can You Do This? Yes. But only if you’re bold enough to silence public expectations and courageous enough to choose what brings you peace. Like Ruth, you must ask yourself: Do I want a wedding for the world, or a marriage that lasts? The truth? You can absolutely have both but it starts with intentional choices, not societal pressure.