
Popular media personality and lifestyle entrepreneur Toke Makinwa is once again at the center of online conversation after revealing that her inbox has been flooded with marriage proposals just days after publicly expressing a newfound openness to remarrying, even as a second or third wife.
The buzz began following an emotionally candid episode of her podcast, Toke Moments, where the outspoken media figure reflected on how her views on marriage have evolved over time. In the viral clip, Makinwa said:
“In all honesty, at this point in my life, if I have the opportunity to be the second, third, fourth, or fifth wife, I will take it.”
Her comments sparked a wave of responses across social media, with many praising her transparency while others were stunned by the statement. The conversation touched on the pressures of being a high-achieving woman and the emotional fatigue that can come with constantly being in control.
“I am the boss everywhere and that could be tiring. You feel like you need someone to lean on, someone that could decide what’s for dinner. Must it be me?” she added.
Just days after the episode aired, Makinwa took to Instagram to reveal the aftermath: a surprising flood of direct messages and emails from men expressing serious interest in marrying her. One standout message, which she shared with her followers, was from a senior data analyst in Ibadan with the subject line: “GOAL: Can we get married?”
The screenshot showed a number of heartfelt and often humorous proposals, with some admirers openly admiring her beauty, success, and newfound vulnerability.
The response to her revelation has been mixed, but mostly supportive. While some netizens joked about the "line forming already," others commended her for shedding light on the hidden emotional weight successful women often carry in silence.
Critics, however, questioned whether her comments glorify polygamy or undermine traditional expectations of marriage. Still, others argued that her take reflects a modern, more realistic approach to love and companionship in today’s fast-paced world.
Toke Makinwa, who has always been known for speaking her truth regardless of public opinion, has yet to respond directly to any of the proposals, but her willingness to engage in real, often uncomfortable conversations continues to keep her in the spotlight.
As the reactions pour in, one thing remains clear: in a society still navigating gender roles, personal freedom, and evolving definitions of success and partnership, Toke Makinwa's voice remains one that ignites reflection and stirs conversation.