Liz Benson Powerful Message to Young Women
Veteran Nollywood actress Liz Benson has always been known for her grace, wisdom, and moral convictions. In a recent heartfelt message directed at young women, the screen legend offers a sobering perspective on love, relationships, and self worth in a world where casual dating has become the norm.
Liz Benson begins by addressing a common sentiment among some women: *“I’ve only been with one boyfriend, so I’m not promiscuous.” While this may seem like a badge of honor in today’s culture, the actress argues that even one partner can leave a lasting imprint emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
“Men are built differently, and your body can adapt to one in a way that might not suit another, and you begin to run into problems at that point,” she explains, emphasizing that the female body isn’t just wired for experimentation but for deep, lasting connection.
Her message isn’t about shame, but rather about self-respect and long-term wisdom. According to Benson, the female body and soul were designed for a lifelong partnera husband not for “trial relationships” that often lack accountability. She draws a clear distinction between boyfriends and husbands, stating that while a boyfriend can walk away without consequence, a husband carries legal and moral obligations that protect both parties.
“There’s no reward in loyalty to a boyfriend who has no legal or lasting commitment to you,” she notes. “Even in so-called 'committed relationships,' the woman often ends up losing more.”
Benson highlights the biological differences between men and women not as an excuse for male behavior, but to underline the unique toll emotional and physical intimacy can take on women when handled casually.
Her counsel is clear: wait for the man who is willing to make a true commitment. Marriage, though not a perfect guarantee, is likened to a legal contract. Just as one would not invest in land or a car without documentation, entering into a relationship without formal commitment puts one at significant risk.
“Honor yourself by saving loyalty and intimacy for your husband,” Benson concludes. “It’s wiser, more self-protective, and far more dignified.”
At a time when traditional values often collide with modern ideals, Liz Benson’s message is a reminder to many young women to reclaim their worth, set firm standards, and make decisions that protect their future.4
“I NEVER PLANNED TO DATE YOU.
I WAS TAUGHT NEVER TO EAT FROM ANOTHER MAN'S PLATE.
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09/06/2025, 17:38:32
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